Wednesday, July 23, 2008
And the winner is. . .
Thanks to everyone who played and also to those of you who had fun trying to guess the name. For the record, Grandad was the only one who correctly suggested Caroline though he continued to be hopeful that Squeak would actually be a boy named Bobby Joe. Caroline was the name of his grandmother.
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Catching up - Maternity photos #2
I love this first one. Obviously I could not post it before because it gave away the first initial of her name. At the time we took the photo we actually were not sure what name we were using so we took the same post with another letter as well. I really like the way it turned out and plan to hang it in her room, along with all of the letters.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008
EDD - 3 update
Everything is good. My blood pressure was perfect. I was a little concerned because my ankles have begun to get a little swollen but it is July and HOT. I did not gain any weight which actually pleased me. Since we have been sick this week with a stomach bug I feared that I might have lost weight and I did not want that. I am currently 2 cm dilated and 80% effaced so things are moving slowly in the right direction. My belly measurement (fundal height) has actually shrunk 2 cm as Squeak has dropped. She is in perfect position for a regular birth - head down and engaged, back toward the front. All great news.
Lindsey (my midwife) and I talked about our plan from here. My due date is on Friday and she hopes to see me then as that is the day I optimally want to deliver. It is when she, my OB and my friend who work in L&D are all on duty. If that day comes and goes without a baby though, we scheduled my next appointment for next Wednesday. At that time we will do a biophysical profile which is a sonogram just to make sure that everything is OK with my "past term" baby. She is not concerned that it would not be, it just standard. The OB had originally said that my final deadline was the 25th, one week past my due date but today Lindsey said she had talked to the OB and due to a few factors, such as the 25th is Lindsey's birthday and she does not want to some in for surgery, the hospital surgery schedule is full, etc. They will let me go until the 29th. While it does not excite me that I might have this baby in me for 4 more days than originally thought, I am glad that they agree to let nature take its course and allow me to go into labor on my own.
Overall I am feeling pretty good (except for the stomach bug we have). I am still getting around pretty comfortably and sleeping OK. I seem to be taking 1-2 hours of naps a day which is really odd for me. I am just at that point where I am a bit impatient. I am a planner so this lack of control is frustrating. There is nothing on my calendar but to have a baby. The list is all done, the house is fairly straight. We are ready.
Katherine is so excited about meeting baby sister. She gives my tummy hugs, kisses and zerberts all the time. She will say things like, "I want baby sister to come out. I want to hold her. I'll be soft. I'll kiss her. I'll share my toys." She tells us all the things that she will do to help and all the things she will teach baby sister. It will be so fun to see them together.
So, keep praying that we go into labor on our own and my preference would be soon. And, if yo have any fun labor inducing ideas, let me know. Lindsey said the only proven one is the one that got me into this situation, but I love to hear your ideas and am willing to try all kinds of stuff like eating eggplant, etc.
On the naming front, we are pretty sure we have a final name! It has been fun to see suggestions and guesses. The most fun has been my father in law who emails me a guess almost every day. He continues to hope that Squeak is a boy named Bobby Joe but if she is a girl he has suggested Judy, family names of Caroline and Stella and flower names of Jasmine and Lily from childhood memories Sam has or the flower names of Hyacinth, Daisy, Rose or Violet from our favorite BBC comedy, "Keeping Up Appearances". I do promise that we are not using family names from my side of Ruby, Fanny and Willa Mae (sisters). Their other sister was my great grandmother Marie. Thank goodness for one normal name in the bunch.
Saturday, July 12, 2008
I do NOT want to go into labor tonight
We arrived at Nana's and Katherine was really snugly with her daddy. She had just gotten up from a nap about 20 minutes before so we did not think anything of it. Then as she was laying on the couch, she threw up. The only other time she has ever thrown up was when she was 9 months old so this really scared her. We decided not to go out and stayed over there until she had stopped. She had 2 more episodes. Katherine was so sweet about it. She was scared but kept saying she was sorry to Nana and to me for making a mess. She wanted to wash her hands and felt bad that my shirt was messy.
We came home and she seems to feel fine. Hopefully this was a short stomach bug or something she ate. Regardless, I don't think tonight would be my preferred night to go into labor since I have a sick toddler.
So, when is my preference of when to go into labor? Well, I will take anything before July 25th (deadline before they want to do a c-section) but if I had to choose, I would want to give birth on Friday, July 18th, my actual due date. This is the only day that both my midwife and my OB are on call so I thought that would be a good day. Plus, with giving birth on a Friday Sam would not have to worry about how things are at work while we are in the hospital and it is a good time for friends and family to come visit. Really though anytime next Thursday-Sunday my midwife is the one on call so that works for me.
So, as long as you are thinking of me, pray that I deliver on the 18th and that I continue to feel as good next week as I did this week.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
A hint
This time it has been much more difficult but it is narrowed down. Ironically our two remaining names have been at the top of our list since before we found out we were pregnant with Squeak but for some reason we have had a very hard time deciding for sure and committing to a name. So, with only 9 days left to our due date, we will probably be one of those couples I have always made fun of. The couple that shows up at the hospital without knowing the name of their baby. I would always be amazed thinking, "You knew for 9 months you were having a baby and for 5 months that it was a girl, how could you not have a name?!?!" Now I know and no longer will laugh at those other couples.
So, for our hint, here are some names that it is not (as found in this recent news article) :
Most popular boy/girl baby names in 1950:
1. Linda
2. Mary
3.Patricia
4. Barbara
5. Susan
6. Nancy
7. Deborah
8. Sandra
9. Carol
10. Kathleen
Here's the list from last year:
1.Emily
2. Isabella
3. Emma
4. Ava
5. Madison
6. Sophia
7. Olivia
8. Abigail
9. Hannah
10. Elizabeth
So, if you would like to start making some guesses on what you think the name would be, I would love to see it in the comments.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Pool is closed
The player that baffled me the most was Grandad who said that it would be a boy. At first Sam thought his dad did not notice that the default was boy but he actually left a comment about Baby Joe. So, if the sonogram was wrong and we have a boy, Grandad will be the clear winner.
We will post to the blog when Squeak arrives and we will announce the winner of the Baby Pool at that time. Thanks for playing.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Maternity photos



Richard and I both look at a lot of photography websites and blogs so we decided to do some "urban" location shots for the non-traditional maternity photos. They are a lot of fun.



This one is fun. I saw it on a website but where the mom was totally nekid with the exception of some strategically placed rose petals. We did not copy that shot due to 1) my modesty and 2) my photographer is one of my best friends husbands and that is just weird! It does not really show my pregnant belly that well but is still a cool shot so I thought I would include it.The last two photos are from when I was pregnant with Katherine. As you see, my belly looks almost exactly the same. It is the same size but last time I had a belly button ring. Yep, if you did not know that about me, my belly button used to be pierced. I actually took it out at this photo shoot for good. Sometimes I wish it were still there. Oh, well.
It was really funny when we were getting ready for this photo session. I was looking at the photos from Katherine and she wanted to see them. Here is a summary of our conversation.
Katherine: Mommy has a ring in her belly button
You can see from our responses that Sam was not a fan of the belly button and he has no desire for our daughter to get one. I don't either for that matter. Hopefully it is a conversation that will not come up again for at least 15 more years when she is about to become a legal adult.
Saturday, July 5, 2008
38 week update
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
A fun baby pool - Guess when Squeak will arrive!
Here are some facts to help you as you make your guesses.
- My estimated due date is July 18th.
- Katherine was born 3 days late but it was by scheduled c-section.
- Medically I am considered a first time mom since I did not labor at all with Katherine and most first time moms deliver a week overdue.
- I am almost 38 weeks (2 weeks from due date) and feeling crampy but no contractions other than usual Braxton Hicks.
- Katherine was just shy of 6 pounds at full term (5lb 15.9 oz)
- Katherine was 18.5 inches
- This pregnancy has been exactly like Katherine's so far in every way except that I am more sore now. Hopefully this is because Squeak is head down and gearing up for delivery whereas Katherine was breech and never moved toward delivery.
Keep checking the blog for regular updates. We plan to make a post when we are in labor and headed to the hospital and again after the delivery. Sam though has told me that I need to not be addicted to updating my blog from the delivery room:)
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Time to pack the bags
Thursday, June 19, 2008
pam·per
1. to treat or gratify with extreme or excessive indulgence, kindness, or care: to pamper a child; to pamper one's stomach.
This corner has two more pictures of my moms. I still need to work on this area as it seems too cluttered to me right now. Madi and I just kind of took everything that I had set out as possibilities and placed them. I think it is too much though.
36 weeks
Updates: I gained 2 more pounds so a total of 24 pounds. Blood pressure it good. Fundal height (belly size/growth) was 36 cm so exactly what it should be at 36 weeks. Lastly, my Group B Strep test came back positive. So, the issue of whether to take antibiotics or not based on my 8 week test is no longer an issue. I will have IV antibiotics when I get to the hospital.
Several people have asked me about my birth plan so I thought this was a good time to fill you in on what we are planning. With Katherine I had a c-section 3 days past my due date. This was because we found out at that time that she was breech. When an ultrasound was done to confirm this, we also discovered that my amniotic fluid was low and Katherine was small for a term baby. So, I was scheduled for a c-section that day.
At my post-natal appointment I asked my OB about a VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean) for future pregnancies. He told me that their practice did not do them but that I was a great candidate for one if the baby was not breech. So, it has always been my desire to have a vaginal birth rather than a scheduled c-section. I know that not all people who have had c-sections in the past desire a VBAC and that is fine. If I had a long hard labor that ended in a c-section I might feel differently but I had not a single contraction.
I joined a yahoo group for people who have had c-sections and learned a lot. Most importantly I learned that I am so lucky to not have negative feelings toward my birth with Katherine. Some of the women in this group are still dealing with issues related to their c-section 20 years after the fact. Sure, I regret that I did not have the labor and delivery that I had hoped for but given Katherine's position, I truly feel like my c-section was necessary.
So, with this pregnancy I have been preparing to avoid a c-section. I started by switching my practicioner since my former OB does not do VBAC's. I am seeing a midwife who practices at a hospital. There are two midwives in a practice with about 8 OB's who are all supportive of VBAC's. I absolutely love my midwife and the difference in how a midwife and an OB practice. I have also been seeing a chiropractor who specializes in maternity patients. I began seeing her long before I was pregnant and now see her weekly. There are chiropractic techniques that help your body encourage a baby to be in the proper position. Who knows if Squeak would have had a tendency to be breech or not, but she has been head down since at least 28 weeks. Since that is the reason for my c-section, having her head down makes things look very good for a VBAC. My chiropractor is also a doula and recently completed her midwifery training. She will be my doula and attending the birth. A doula is a professional labor assistant that helps out during labor and delivery.
A lot of people have asked me about having a natural childbirth. That was my goal with Katherine. I took the Bradley classes and had every intention of having an intervention-free, medication-free birth. I still would love that but this time my goal is really to have a VBAC and avoid major abdominal surgery. If I end up with an epidural but avoid surgery, I will be fine with that. There are a lot of reasons why I prefer a natural childbirth that I don't need to go into but I would certainly like the freedom to walk around and labor and deliver in different positions. Having an epidural confines you to bed. I think with a VBAC, it is important to have as many options available as possible and being flat on my back in bed may not allow me to be successful.
We are getting so excited about Squeak's arrival as my due date is only a month away. A friend had their baby this week and I was able to hold her only about 14 hours after birth. I forget how small they are. I have been busy washing all of Katherine's tiny clothes and reminiscing when I put them away. We still have not settled on a name. We are down to three choices. We don't share, so don't ask but do pray that we settle on one soon.
Monday, June 16, 2008
If I had a dollar . . .
Friday night we met with my doula who happens to be my chiropractor as well. She and her husband came over for dinner and we had a great evening grilling and eating outside. Katherine loved showing Dr. Cindy her big girl room, her silly work sprinkler and showing off by peeing on the carpet in the den (thanks Katherine). We talked about my birth plan and what she will do as my doula.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
The results

There are 9 month prints. The artist is still working on the summer ones. I like them but it might be weird to only have a few and I don't think I need 12 prints.

These are from belleandboo.

























